This tip sheet offers practical advice for foster parents, adoptive parents, and relative caregivers on how to navigate conversations with children about their birth parents. The article emphasizes the importance of honesty, empathy, and creating a safe space for children to explore their family histories. It covers essential topics including preparing emotionally as a caregiver, building collaborative relationships with birth parents when possible, communicating difficult truths with compassion, and supporting children through complex emotions. With insights from experienced caregivers and practical tips for handling challenging situations, this resource recognizes that helping children understand their complete story is crucial for healthy identity development. The guide concludes with valuable resources for further support.

 

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Author: Wisconsin Family Connections Center
Additional Author: Coalition for Children, Youth & Families